We didn’t start this journey with a grand plan.
Just two people in love, a little curious, a little brave, and maybe a bit naïve.
We thought finding a Dragon or Bull would be fun — exciting, maybe even easy.
Yeah… no. It was a wild ride.
The Disasters (because there were many)
Our first try was this confident, charming guy from a regular dating app.
Good texts, good photos — and in person? Too much confidence, not enough listening.
He started setting the tone before we even ordered drinks.
We smiled through it, but honestly, both of us felt like props in his fantasy.
We went home, silent in the car, both thinking, “That’s not what we want.”
The next one was the opposite — sweet, respectful, maybe too careful.
He’d pause five seconds before answering anything.
Every message took a day.
It was like trying to dance with someone who kept counting the steps out loud.
Nice person, just… no rhythm with us.
Then came the “maybe we’re trying too hard” phase.
We said yes to someone too fast — the vibe wasn’t right, but we ignored it.
The first hour was okay, the next was weird, and by dessert we were looking for excuses to leave.
I remember us laughing in the car later like, “Well… that was something.”
We learned patience the hard way.
The Turning Point
We were close to giving up.
Then we found couplesandunicorns.com.
It felt different right away.
No fake bios, no guessing games — just people who actually get what this dynamic means.
Couples who want connection.
Dragons & Bulls who understand boundaries and respect.
We matched with someone who didn’t jump straight into “so what are you into?”
He asked about us.
How long we’d been together. What made us curious about exploring.
He even said, “I just want to match your energy, not mess with it.”
That one sentence stuck.
The Night It Finally Worked
We met at this low-key bar near the water.
I spilled my drink before we even sat down (because of course I did).
He laughed, grabbed napkins, and said, “Okay, ice officially broken.”
Something about that moment just clicked — no tension, no weird performance.
Dinner turned into hours of talking.
We shared stories, cracked jokes, and somehow ended up walking by the pier at midnight.
There wasn’t any rush. No pretending. Just connection.
You could feel everyone relaxing — the kind of energy that’s both calm and electric at once.
When we finally decided to take things a little further, it felt natural.
Not planned. Not forced. Just right.
Afterward, we made pancakes in the morning — he teased me because I can’t flip them properly.
No awkwardness. No “what now?” feeling.
Just laughter, coffee, and that quiet little glow when something actually works.
Looking Back
All those messy, failed attempts?
They taught us more than any success story could.
How to listen to each other.
How to slow down.
How to spot red flags early.
And honestly, without CoupleAndUnicorns, we might’ve quit trying.
It’s the only space where we’ve felt completely understood — where everyone knows what this kind of connection is about.
Not just sex. Not just adventure.
It’s curiosity, trust, laughter, and a bit of magic when it clicks.
We still talk to that Dragon. Sometimes he joins us for dinner, sometimes just to hang out.
It’s easy. Real. And that’s what we’d been looking for all along.
If you’re a couple out there, a little curious, maybe a little nervous —
don’t give up after the weird ones.
Because when you finally find the right person, it just… fits.
And if you want to skip the guessing game, try CouplesAndUnicorns
It’s where things finally started to make sense for us.